Nobody wants to be a loser but sometimes that’s exactly what we need. We want to get the job, win the work, be picked for the team, have the clever idea and preferably be proven right when somebody initially disagreed with us. We are also surrounded by a fairly relentless message that we should be winning at life. Careers should be progressing, businesses should be growing, children should be thriving, relationships should be wonderful and apparently we should also be exercis
